my girlfriend and i have been dating for about 8 months, and we've had sex since before we were official. about a week ago, i started getting really nervous right before sex and could not get an erection. we've managed to have sex between then and now (once tipsy, once sober, a couple of times high). while i have been a bit stressed with a couple of things in my life, it would never affect my sex life, but this past week has been hell. i love my girlfriend, and have not lost interest in any way for her.

also, this has happened before, with a previous girlfriend, but didnt last this long. i am worried.

your problem is sexual performance anxiety

any fear, doubt or worry will get in the way of you getting an erection, or keeping it once you get it

you need to relax while getting horny

these exercises can help too

Hey man, from time to time my dick is as flaccid as a deflated football, but of course that's only after I get shmamered from shotguns, hackin doobsticks from the fun sac, and getting liq'd till my mind explodes. So what do I do? Take a little bit of viagra and im back on my feet. I pinned a sly piece of vagpie so hard that she shuttered water all over the joint. Meanwhile me over here still hard as a tiger and im trying to bust a load of clam chowder all over this bassmouth. So anyways like 45 minutes later I finally fired off some ocean lotion.

ur worried that ur a flamming fag? maybe u dont get an erection cause ur in denial about ur sexuality