Hey I'm 13 and when I'm 18 I will benidist I'm a naked whenever I can and I'm thinking of asking my grandma If I can at her place we are really close and wouldn't care if she would see me but I'm asking how should I ask

I will assume that you're not asking this just to try shocking everybody.

Sometimes when we go through puberty, we want to start trying out all sorts of things that make us feel funny or sexy. If we're used to wearing clothes all the time, being naked can be one of those things that feels this way. Being naked when you're by yourself is fine, if you want to be naked around someone else you need to respect their boundaries, and not do things that would make them feel weird or uncomfortable.

You probably have an idea how your family feels about nudity. Where you often allowed to run around nude in the house when you were younger? Were your parents often nude in a casual way in the hose, perhaps coming out of the bathroom naked to grab a new bar of soap before taking a shower? If not, your family rules about being naked are probably not very relaxed, and remember, your grandmother may be more conservative than your parents in this area. If you want to be naked because you're more comfortable that way, it feels natural, and you've done it before at home, you could ask your grandma if she would mind you being naked around the house on that basis. If you're asking because it feels naughty or sexy to be naked, and it's not usual in your family, asking to do it might make your grandma feel weird or worried about you, and cause you embarrassment or awkward moments. Use your judgement and knowledge about your family's rules before you proceed.

When I was about 11, I asked my parents if I could be nude when I was alone in the house, because I knew they believed the human body was good and didn't need to be covered up all the time. They told me it was okay as long as I drew the shades so nobody could peek in on me. They got a big laugh about a week later when they came home to a gloomy house with all the shades drawn, and me scampering nude through the middle of it. Later we moved to a secluded house in the woods, and we all hung around nude most of the time through the Southern California summer. So it was natural for my family. Even though part of my original desire to be naked was probably because it felt sexy to my child's brain.